Sunday, September 10, 2017

F.O.M.O. Feeling of Missing Out- Harmonizing the Learning Environment After a Setback

Obstacles occur in every classroom. These complications can be almost indistinguishable and easily overcome or they can be dynamic and life-changing. As educators, how we deal with a disturbance or interference makes all the difference. Either way, large or small, as teachers we need to have strategies in place to help our students recover from them. They need a stronghold on routine and familiarity so that when they re-enter the classroom, their footing is solid. Students need to know that the foundation of the learning environment is consistent with what they remember, what they are already comfortable with. The first few days need to be structured but flexible. Have conversations about what happened, but keep them short and get back to learning quickly. By having a review of previous content, students will begin to feel more connected and at ease. Just talk, make connections, let students feel comfortable with what they have learned, before you add new information. As facilitators, we need to make sure we are not cramming in data and rushing through lessons because we feel behind schedule, this will only cause more anxiety for our fragile students.

Students need to feel solidarity with one another and have time to get their bearings, express their disappointment, insecurities and bewilderment. Give them some class time to talk, just have conversations. Some of our students have not spoken to one another through this absence and need to reconnect. Let them bond over what they have all gone through. Many of their emotions will be hidden, only coming to the surface in times of stress or confusion. Many will laugh and interact with their peers, seemingly like nothing is wrong, however, even the smallest, inconsequential of setbacks takes its toll. Even if students were only impacted by watching the event unfold on television, they know people who have been affected, they understand what has happened and processing it will take time. One can choose to side step it, letting students cope outside of school with family or as a teacher we can address it head on, make sure that students talk about it, as difficult as that may seem, the feeling of missing out, or being consumed with something no one is discussing is worse.

Allowing time for students to share and reconnect is critical, but re-harmonizing our relationships with our students is just as important. Monday is the first day back for my students and I am going to sit down at every table and talk to each group individually. Listen to their stories, help them feel safe and secure in our classroom community. Reassure them grades are not at the forefront of our learning, understanding and confidence in the content is. I want to make sure they know that learning is important and we will be moving forward, but that we will also be continuing to heal together. We will review and make connections and add to our knowledge slowly but surely, to readjust back to school in a mindful manner, not a hectic, chaotic one. I will be spending a lot of time in the ‘power zone’ out among my students but also one-on-one with them during our one-minute check-ins.

Before we were impacted by the hurricane, I had a 1-minute check-in with every student. We talked about science and hobbies as well as strategies and goals. So, this week I will be sitting down with each of them again. I will listen to them intently to determine where they are, what they need from me to feel content and safe, and how I can help them teach themselves strategies of resilience and focus. There will be a lot of distraction and uncertainty for many students and I want to make sure I ease them back into a routine but also back into a growth mindset. One of overcoming adversity, listening to one’s instincts and asking for help.

The most important thing I can do as a teacher right now is to listen. While some students will rebound quickly, others will reestablish stability more slowly. Emotions will run high for some students and others will appear cheerful, when deep down they are in a very dark place. I need to be able to just observe and listen. I need to make sure every one of my students feels safe and comfortable back at school and in our learning community.
The only way to make sure every student harmonizes back into the learning environment is to look them in the eye, regularly, and talk to them. Ask them questions and get them to open-up to me. I am thankful I had the opportunity to have a one-minute check-in with each of them before we were separated. This will make next week more comfortable and relaxing. 

As a class, we have laughed and played. We have created a community board, a graffiti wall of cell vocabulary and we have collaborated and had personal conversations. I may not know all their names yet, but I know each of them, personally. There is a bond already formed. Therefore, next week has a foundation, the scaffolding is in place, all I need to do is slowly add the sheet rock and let students construct their knowledge, independence and trust around the community center we call our learning environment. To be available and present but also remote, because during times like these kids need to be kids too. They need to have time to be silly without an eyeful watch. I am going to be mingling and providing hugs and smiles. But most importantly, I will be emanating a sense of calm, mindfulness and joy needed to re-center and re-focus as a learning community.

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